A friend send this to me.

God Said NO!
I asked God to take away my habit.
  God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up..
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
  God said, No.. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
  God said, No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
   God said, No. I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
  God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
  God said, No. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life.
  God said, No. I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.
I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
    God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.